Cultivate, Develop, Train And Progress Discernment

The description for this June 4th Insight Timer live event:

We all need discernment, but how? Let’s look at some ways to cultivate, develop, train and progress discernment. While there’s much to discernment, one key: “. . . one listening well gains discernment” ~from Āṭavaka’s Questions

What is your intent and motivation to address discernment itself? I ask again at end to see if these have changed any. I feel mine are mostly in-line with what the Buddha recommends and also in order to see and address manipulation

I read the entire Āḷavaka Sutta (SN 10:12) then focus mainly on this one question and answer from it:

How does one gain discernment?
Convinced of the arhats’ Dharma for attaining unbinding,—heedful, observant—one listening well gains discernment

from the Āḷavaka Sutta  (SN 10:12)

I have heard that on one occasion the Blessed One was staying near Āḷavī in the haunt of the Āḷavaka yakkha. Then the Āḷavaka yakkha went to the Blessed One and on arrival said to him: “Get out, contemplative!”

(Saying,) “All right, my friend,” the Blessed One went out.

“Come in, contemplative!”

(Saying,) “All right, my friend,” the Blessed One went in.

A second time… A third time, the Āḷavaka yakkha said to the Blessed One, “Get out, contemplative!”

(Saying,) “All right, my friend,” the Blessed One went out.

“Come in, contemplative!”

(Saying,) “All right, my friend,” the Blessed One went in.

Then a fourth time, the Āḷavaka yakkha said to the Blessed One, “Get out, contemplative!”

“I won’t go out, my friend. Do what you have to do.”

“I will ask you a question, contemplative. If you can’t answer me, I will possess your mind or rip open your heart or, grabbing you by the feet, hurl you across the Ganges.”

“My friend, I see no one in the cosmos with its devas, Māras & Brahmās, its contemplatives & brahmans, its royalty & commonfolk, who could possess my mind or rip open my heart or, grabbing me by the feet, hurl me across the Ganges. But nevertheless, ask me what you wish.”

Āḷavaka:

“What is a person’s highest wealth?

What, when well-practiced, brings bliss?

What is the highest of savors?

Living in what way is one’s life called the best?”

The Buddha:

“Conviction is a person’s highest wealth.

Dhamma, when well-practiced, brings bliss.

Truth is the highest of savors.1

Living with discernment, one’s life is called best.”

Āḷavaka:

“How does one cross over the flood?

How [does one] cross over the sea?

How does one overcome suffering & stress?

How is a person purified?”

The Buddha:

“Through conviction one crosses over the flood.

Through heedfulness, the sea.

Through persistence one overcomes suffering & stress.

Through discernment a person is purified.”

Āḷavaka:

“How does one gain discernment?

How does one find wealth?

How does one attain honor?

How bind friends to oneself?

Passing from this world to the next world, how does one not grieve?”

The Buddha:

“Convinced of the arahants’ Dhamma for attaining unbinding, —heedful, observant— one listening well gains discernment. Doing what’s fitting, enduring burdens, one with initiative finds wealth. Through truth one attains honor. Giving binds friends to oneself. Endowed with these four qualities, — truth, self-control, stamina, relinquishment — a householder of conviction, on passing away, doesn’t grieve.

Now, go ask others, common brahmans & contemplatives, if anything better than truth, self-control, stamina, & relinquishment here can be found.”

Āḷavaka:

“How could I go ask

common brahmans & contemplatives?—

now that today I understand

what benefits

the next life.

It was truly for my well-being

that the Awakened One came

to stay in Āḷavī.

Today I understand

where what is given

bears great fruit.

I’ll wander from village to village,

town to town,

paying homage to the Self-awakened One

& the true rightness of the Dhamma.”

NOTE

1. This is apparently a reference to the concept of “savor” (rasa) in Indian aesthetic theory. For more on this topic, see the Introduction to Dhammapada: A Translation.

See also: AN 3:48; AN 4:62; AN 8:54; Dhp 354

To the Āḷavaka Yakkha
Āḷavaka Sutta  (SN 10:12)

While this Sutta tailors the following three discernment teachings — amongst other things — to a demon, there is much within it to take heed of for all of us:

  1. Best way to live
  2. Purification
  3. How to gain discernment
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Superluminosity, Sacred Geometry Cities Energy Harvesting Upkeep & Founder Beings: “Adventures Into Reality” With Andrew Bartzis 6/2/2022 Call-in

Audio only. See below for full video version

I’ve spoke with the Galactic Historian Andrew Bartzis a few times before on his live call-in show Adventures Into Reality. But on June 2nd we chatted for quite awhile about these topics plus more:

  • (non-substance based) methods for expanding and exploring consciousness
  • light
  • time in between heartbeats / heart rate variability
  • location of consciousness
  • flow state
  • active process learning and directed information
  • “curiosity is the downfall of consciousness”
  • time and no-time
  • overlay of multiverse
  • perception deception filters
  • photonic light
  • projecting thought constructs
  • superluminal observer state
  • micro vs macroscopic vision
  • entering the thymus with the vagal nerve
  • chemical vs light memory
  • fully relaxing body to best ability and entering light
  • sending light (and breath) one second into the future (and one second into the past)
  • empowering blood and marrow with light
  • using third eye to look at and project light into lungs
  • creative state of spiritual practices
  • four elements — with body, location and practices
  • energy usage associated with projection practices
  • letting go of stories
  • daily journaling, chronicling our journey and hindsight
  • precognitive workforce
  • trauma
  • perception and perspective
  • 8 primary colors
  • (fear of) unknowingness and lack of reference points
  • slowing down information in the moment
  • translating a one million letter celestial alphabet and coded light
  • curiosity learning and impulse control hijacking the moment
  • patience
  • old spells contained in sacred geometry buildings, monuments, etc and the outsourcing to maintain them (during transition to transhumanism) because there’s so few magicians/wizards on the surface of the earth
  • Maharishi Vastu architecture as a possible solution
Maharishi Vastu architecture as a possible solution
  • uploading consciousness
  • altered carbon
  • machines and magic
  • imprinting solidified mind constructs (into metal)
  • certain architectures defying fundamental laws of universe
  • advanced beings trying to access ancient technology beyond their comprehension by pretending to be gods
  • group of founding light beings (of this section of the galaxy) implementing what they’ve learned elsewhere and/or new types of consciousnesses (that may or may not use all the laws of the galaxy or universe) some of whom are on their way to becoming celestial consciousnesses
  • leaving behind biological creations that then later take on consciousness
  • individual and collective experiences
  • leaving dark age for the silver age by doing the work yourselves
  • form and formless subterranean and inner-earth beings controlling surface world which has always been a farm for consciousness
  • astral as transition space into hollow/inner earth (with significant lives on surface as requirement)
  • powerful beings living on surface attracting more beings to learn lessons here
  • source connection and disconnection
  • using contract revocations to surpass technologies that (help) prohibit past life recall
  • being your own guru
  • [and a special announcement]

Andrew’s website: https://andrewbartzis.com

Andrew’s book on Amazon: “The Galactic Historian: The World According to Andrew Bartzis“


My segment starts at 1:09:26

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Ask For (A) Change

The description for this May 31 talk via Wisdom app and InsightTimer.com/live:

Let’s play with the puns in this title to continue exploring a format change for the monthly “Ask Us Anything”: 1) give and ask of each other advice; 2) needed changes individually & collectively; and 3) continuing the themes of speaking up & inquiring/investigating to spark curiosity & enthusiasm

Notes:

1) Giving and Asking Advice

  • How do you give and ask advice?
  • How often?
  • Upsides, downsides?
  • When to, and when not to ask for and give advice?
Giving Advice:
  • How honest are you when giving advice?
  • Do motives change depending on situation and person?
  • What about unsolicited advice?
  • Are we projecting our own wants and needs with our advice?
  • Would I follow the same advice I’m giving?
  • Intuitive advice?
  • How do you know it could be helpful?
  • What might be some overlooked key questions for the advice seeker that may help them discover the best views and choices?
Asking Advice:
  • Asking just for confirmation, or how possible choices available will be perceived (that you may already have chosen but not acted on yet)
  • Whom all do you ask?
  • How do you ask?
  • Holding back asking someone you want to?
  • Headstrong, stubborn and rarely seek advice? Why?
  • Ever flipped the script, testing someone by actually asking as something you think the advice giver needs advice on (themselves)?

2) Needed changes — individually and collectively

  • Core question: what really needs to change?
  • When hearing the word “change” what comes to mind?
  • What context is defaulted into to answer this question:
    • “I/you need to change”?
    • (How many relationships have been taken on as projects?)
    • “I want to change (but can’t) [or yes I know this change needs to be made but making it a reality is really far off]”
  • For me change often means: “The change I want can’t come quick enough and I don’t want the change I don’t want”
  • How do you know what changes you need and not just want? Will the changes (you/we need happen anyway)?
  • How does all this apply on more collective levels: friends, ancestry past/present/future, tribe(s), groups, collectives, organizations, humanity, beyond humanity [read questions again applied to this level]
  • The only reliable, constant in life is changeability.

3) Speaking up and inquiring/investigating to spark curiosity and enthusiasm

But in this past work I didn’t go much into how to formulate questions:

  • To get the right answers you have to ask the right questions.
  • For self-inquiry there’s asking a question. At first it can be vague and general then contemplate it, get an answer, refine question, get answer, continue/repeat
  • Peeling the Onion — what’s behind that? What’s behind that?…..
  • But how about motivations for speaking up and asking questions?
  • What are you really enthusiastic about (or remember the last time you were)? Now three things. How can this be applied to more areas? Can the most enthusiastic thing be applied equally to other two?
  • What all is really important to be curious and enthusiastic about?
  • Then there’s kind of the opposite where maybe there needs to be time for old interests to fall away, rest and then reassess
  • Who can you clearly ask and be curious around and not? Who all inhabits more grey areas where sometime I can?
  • Niece and nephew say: “can I tell you something?”
  • When are and when aren’t good times to ask yourself questions and be curious?
  • [Interesting counter-perspective by Andrew Bartzis in next podcast: “curiosity is the downfall of consciousness”]

What are your take aways for these three sections: advice, changes (from individual to world), asking?


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June 2022 Insight Timer Live Events: Cultivating Discernment; Formless Realms; You Teach Me; Matrix Or Truman Show?


Ask For (A) Change

Let’s play with the puns in this title to continue exploring a format change for the monthly “Ask Us Anything”: 1) give and ask of each other advice; 2) needed changes individually & collectively; and 3) continuing the themes of speaking up & inquiring/investigating to spark curiosity & enthusiasm

Tue May 31 – 07:00 pm (not June; included here due to proximity)

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Cultivate, Develop, Train And Progress Discernment

We all need discernment, but how? Let’s look at some ways to cultivate, develop, train and progress discernment. While there’s much to discernment, one key: “. . . one listening well gains discernment” ~from Āṭavaka’s Questions

Sat Jun 4 – 3:30 pm Central

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(Jhanic Factors And) Formless Realms Contemplation/Mediation

Addressing the politics and emotional charges often associated with Jhana & nimitta before talking about jhanic factors then placing this aside for a guided meditation/contemplation based on “The Shorter Discourse on Emptiness (MN 121)” involving village, wilderness, earth & the four formless states

Sun Jun 12 – 10:30 am Central

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You Teach Me

A (brief) experiment where (you) the audience teach me anything you’d like. It could be from the spiritual journey, inner work, everyday life, work, play, groups, family, friends, enemies, frenemies, relationships, etc. I may fill in gaps with how to approach others for knowledge, teachings, etc.

Thu Jun 23 – 9:00 pm Central

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Is Your Awakening Journey More The Matrix or The Truman Show?

A brief 15 minute or so more lighthearted approach to the sometimes intense and weird moments of awakening via The Truman Show and Matrix films as reference points

Mon Jun 27 – 9:00 pm Central

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Blocks, Paths, One-Way, (Super) Highways & Byways

Let’s briefly explore these plus matrixes, nodal/access points, gates, portals, vehicles, crafts, dream-walking, teleportation, hitchhiking, ride sharing, mass transit, migration, flight, and other travel terms literally, figuratively, metaphorically & in the context of the “Ask Us Anything” format

Tue Jun 28 – 6:00 pm

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Healing Journeys & Self-Awareness With Bo Bissett

On May 17th, healing guide Bo Bissett joined me virtually from Taiwan to talk about primarily about healing, including: Bo’s story of multiple car accidents and addiction; the importance of love in healing and how to heal. Other topics include: why more people don’t realize they’re on a healing journey; self-sabotage; subconscious programs; self-confidence vs egotism; routines and habit patterns.


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Kate Heartsong: Changing Our World With Confidence

On April, 25th author and confidence coach Kate Heartsong and I spoke to some of the ins, outs and hows of healing and interrelating.

Kate Heartsong is the empowering and life-enhancing author of two books, Humanity’s Cry for Change – Actions You Can Take to Create a New Earth and Deeply We Are One. She is also the “Confidence Coach”, a workshop facilitator, coauthor, public speaker and Reiki Master/Teacher.

For over 20 years, Kate has been receiving profound insights while meditating. She is passionate about supporting her clients, audiences and readers with these insights, along with the wisdom from her vast life experiences and education.

Kate also empowers people to realize that as they do their own inner work, they also contribute to creating peace worldwide. Her quote says it best: “Peace within, peace on earth.”

We also discuss:

  • encouragement and empowerment
  • acknowledging greatness
  • what’s most important now and/or long term individually and collectively?
  • healing
  • calmness and holding space
  • Kate’s massive release while grieving the loss of her mother
  • physical effects of emotional healing
  • acknowledging pain as compassion
  • my past confusion of confidence with egotism
  • two confidence training practices
  • goodness
  • worth
  • honor and respect
  • kindness and compassion
  • various real life examples of interconnectivity
  • the energetic nature of all things and phenomena
  • the vibratory nature of the heart
  • how speech and emotions affect our reality
  • mindfulness, consciousness and awareness
  • we’re all doing the best we can, if we could do better we would
  • drilling more deeply into and unfolding (loving-)kindness and compassion
  • ways for businesses to create sustainable, collaborative and holistic systems for the well-being of all
  • generosity

Check out, follow and reach out to Kate online via her:

Facebook ~ LinkedIn ~ Twitter ~ Instagram and website JoyfulRadiance.com



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An Integrating Presence Meditation: Investigating The Challenge Of Breath Curiosity — May 15, 2022 At Fat Cat Longevity

This recorded and now edited meditation — from Sunday, May 15th at Fat Cat Longevity [https://facebook.com/freyflow] downstairs next to Peace Love Coffee at Mary’s House of Healing on Main St in St Charles, MO and on Insight Timer Live — explores how and why it’s so challenging to find the breath interesting then maintain such an interest to be with the breath and be the breath. Sometimes just asking this question can be enough to let everything else fall away in order to be with the breath as meditation object (without needing or wanting any answers). The question of why all this is important is also posed as well as exploring various dimensions of breath.

[Some Insight Timer live participants mentioned very low audio. I responded that if what was recorded could be salvaged I’d post the audio without it going out as a podcast but I’ve changed my mind since after editing it’s OK.]



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Mary’s House of Healing
524 South Main Street
Downstairs at Fat Cat Longevity next to Peace Love Coffee…
St. Charles, MO (63301)

Sunday, May 15th 2022 — 10:30am – 11:15am

Door opens: 10:20am — Door closes: 10:35pm

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Studying And Practicing With “The Iddhipāda-Vibhaṅga Sutta — An Analysis Of The Bases Of Power”: A (Type Of) Situational Awareness (3 of 7)


Article shortcut: https://tinyurl.com/basesofpower


Series introduction:

While I reference some non-Buddhist material most everything in the notes and podcasts for this series on The Iddhipāda-Vibhaṅga Sutta are solely my effort to relate considerations, questions, experiences, explorations, suggestions, interpretations and practices involved and associated with this sutta.

This series comes via seven categories/blog posts/podcasts:

  1. Introduction; the key encapsulation/encoding/summary paragraph of the whole sutta which includes and weaves in the four powers; and a reading of one of two translations for the sutta
  2. Unpacking of the hindrances and the other of two translations for the sutta
  3. A (type of) situational awareness
  4. 32 parts of the body
  5. Perceptions of night, daytime and light
  6. “Psychic Powers,” practice combinations and miscellany
  7. Summary, findings, observations and comparisons

In more detail, the four Iddhipāda — sometimes translated as bases of psychic power, basis of psychic power, bases of power, base of spiritual power, wings to success, paths of accomplishment, accomplishments, or roads to power — are:

  1. chanda: desire; enthusiasm; purpose; wish
  2. viriya: persistence; energy; effort; will
  3. citta: intent; consciousness; knowing mind; mental development; devoting mind to; heart-mind
  4. vīmaṃsā: investigation; inquiry; discernment; discrimination; reason; interest; intelligent curiosity; [(perhaps a new contribution, or for chanda:) balanced and helpful enthrallment, fascination]; feedback and fine tuning, adjustment; learn from doing; circumspection

Along with aiding our even mundane accomplishments and mastery, perhaps the Iddhipāda play a significant role in approaching will — the way one decides on and initiates action — and at the core of The Iddhipāda-Vibhaṅga Sutta is an analysis of will along with instructions for its training, development, and use.


A (Type Of) Situational Awareness

This third part of the series addresses a type of situational awareness mentioned within the sutta. In the first portion I speak without notes while I reference the notes below in the other portion.

This type of situational awareness is in regards to the following portion:

“There is the case where a monk’s perception of what is in front & behind is well in hand, well-attended to, well-considered, well-tuned [‘penetrated’] by means of discernment.”

Or translated:

“And how does a mendicant meditate perceiving continuity: as before, so after; as after, so before? It’s when the perception of continuity is properly grasped, attended, borne in mind, and comprehended with wisdom by a mendicant. That’s how a mendicant meditates perceiving continuity: as before, so after; as after, so before.”

The first translation seems to emphasize space more while the latter emphasizes time.

I speak some to the second translation although I practiced mostly in regards to the first translation. Some comments cross-correlate to each other.

Can this include internal (physicality) as well? If so, this simplifies to include all as in a field, a dhamma field, with perhaps various specific fields within the dhamma field such as the bio-field and perceptual field.

Drilling further into “well in hand, well-attended to, well-considered, well-tuned [‘penetrated’] by means of discernment”:

  • OK to admit to having little clue as to what these mean then asking what they mean and how to go about them
  • Well in hand — What does “well in hand” mean? To take it literally for practice — since I don’t usually wear (a) ring(s) — I’ve used a tumbled, polished gemstone snugly between two fingers that seemed to bring more awareness to having something in hand on the physical level. How to do this without an actual hand? Perhaps contact with attention, mindfulness and awareness. Maybe even etheric or imagined hands when viable and called for.
  • Well-attended to — if referencing how one would attend to someone in everyday life for how would one attend to “perception of what is in front & behind,” would one just say, “do it yourself, I can’t be bothered”? No. We find out what is needed, when and how.
  • Well-considered — would it be possible to take a radical approach — especially to the internal organs very challenging to discern and continue being aware of — by assigning a temporary working ego to what needs practicing with and mastering and cranking it up to 11 so it’s dripping with neediness, entitlement, victimhood and co-dependency like so much we already encounter in life with the intent to transition into with worthiness as a replacement with the caveat of doing so only if this will not detrimentally affect speech and actions? [It occurred to me after writing and recording this that it seems more helpful to do this if still healing through neediness, entitlement, victimhood and co-dependency instead of rehashing or (re)creating these]
  • Well-tuned [‘penetrated’] by means of discernment
  • The Three Characteristics of Existent — inconstancy, stress and not-self — applied to all of these

Going back to the second translation, “…the perception of continuity is properly grasped, attended, borne in mind, and comprehended with wisdom.” How would one verify if one’s wisdom is in accordance with the truth of how this actually is, especially on various relative reality levels? Are there formal teachings for continuity? Who are the wise ones to consult on this? If a tree falls in the woods and no one is around to hear it does it make a sound? How do you know? How does (various degrees of) presence, consciousness and the observer effect influence continuity? And could what’s in front and behind also be somehow related to what’s arising and passing; (perhaps a type of pivot point between) past and future?

Below is my scribble representing various techniques I mention in this episode for practicing with the sutta, especially the situational awareness part


scribble representing various techniques I mention in this episode for practicing with the sutta, especially the situational awareness part

After recording and publishing I came across this commentary:

“As before so after; as after so before.” This should be understood: (1) by way of the meditation subject; and (2) by way of the teaching.

(1) By virtue (vasena; abhinivesa) of the meditation subject is called “before,” and arhathood is “after.” A monk who, after interpreting the root of meditation subject, does not allow investigation to fall into the 4 undesirable conditions (overly lax, etc.) goes on to attain arhathood; he is called one who dwells “as before, so after.”

(2) By way of teaching, the head-hairs are “before” and the brain is “after” (among the solid parts in the contemplation of the body).

A bhikkhu who cultivates his meditation from beginning to end without sliding into the 4 undesirable conditions is called one who dwells “as before, so after.”

Samyutta Commentary (SA 3:258) on: yathā pure tathā pacchā, yathā pacchā tathā pure “As before so after; as after so before.”

And how about the specific context mentioned in this quote from Total Control: High Performance Street Riding Techniques by Lee Parks:

In the quest for maximum bike control, your mental
ability to be completely present in the moment is
just as important as your actual riding skills.
Because the penalties for not paying
attention while riding are so severe, the
act of motorcycling all but forces you to
pay close attention. For this reason,
motorcycling has been called “the lazy
man’s Zen,” as it can produce the same
type of spiritual awareness as deep
meditation. Fear and distraction are the
enemies of presence, and concentration is the cure.



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Another Buddhist forum post shutdown: (Buddhist) origin of tobacco and its relation to Native American use(?)

Another closed forum post, this time closed with an extremely brief reason given of it not being specific enough.

Full question/post titled “Buddhist origin of tobacco and its relation to Native American use“:

Can anything wholesome, helpful, wise and skillful be mentioned about the (Chinese and/or nearby regions) origin(s) of tobacco and how it may and/or may not relate to tobacco use among Native American people — especially the types of tobacco Native Americans approve of now and throughout the known past?

Context from https://bodhiactivity.wordpress.com/2010/01/22/the-defects-of-tobacco-and-smoking-dudjom-rinpoche/ on this topic:

Approximately a hundred years after Buddha Shakyamuni’s parinirvana, a Chinese demon, maddened with obsession, spoke these dying words:

“Through my body I wish to lead the beings of this earth to lower realms. Bury my body intact and eventually a plant, different from all others, will grow out of my remains. Merely by smelling it, people will experience pleasure in body and mind, far more joyful than the union of male and female. It will spread far and wide until most of the beings on this earth will enjoy it.”

And a description from a talk https://www.pathgate.org/index.php/audio-teachings-by-lama-dondrup-dorje/18-old-audio-teachings/104-old-the-buddhist-perspective-on-tobacco on the topic:

Lama Dondrup Dorje gives a teaching based on the Terma and prediction of Chogyal Ratna, Sangay Lingpa, Rinzin Godem, Dundul Dorje and other great masters. The teaching explains the origin of tobacco and other drugs, the negative influences of the Four Maras, and the harm caused by tobacco, which brings war, famine, disease and chaos to the world, and separates those who are users of tobacco from ever attaining any understanding of the Dharma, leading them to take rebirth in the lower realms.

Various comments include(d):

  • tobacco’s use as allowable “medicine”
  • what the relationship (and/or lack of relationship) between Buddhism and tobacco is
  • if the plant mentioned was actually cannabis not tobacco; plants being void of intrinsic evil
  • opium dens
  • being about Terma in Nyingma tradition en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Terma_(religion) with the term ‘Chinese demon’ perhaps a confusion from the terma’s Tibetan originator believing tobacco came from the east and unaware of its origins in the Americas.

And my comment after it being closed (not available there publicly):

Looking at the comments I feel it [the question] is taken as plenty specific just not neatly able to wrap up due to its metaphysical nature and the world’s current lack of metaphysical knowledge, or suppression of such knowledge. Even if it is not specific there are plenty of questions and vaguenesses to be derived and cleared up from the source material I’ve included

The intent being to explore truth within the context of subtle, often overlooked topics without disrupting harmony and concord. If allowed to speculate, perhaps the multiple political and cultural sensitivity involved influenced the decision to close it, and maybe for the best?

If tobacco prevents understanding the Dharma could tobacco also waylay other things positive and/or negative: “to-back-owe” [pun on “tobacco” — to back, or support, or reinforce what’s owed; and/or to go back to owing; and/or to be indebted (to forces or spirits involved with tobacco who provided a seeming benefit for the tobacco user and want some kind of compensation)]?


(Yet) Another Shutdown

I asked:

How is Buddhism related and/or involved in what’s happening in Burma/Myanmar? Attempting to innerstand what’s going on in Burma/Myanmar by way of Buddhism there

Some topics/comments mentioned before shut down and subsequent deletion via bot:

  • killing of Rohingya Muslims by Buddhists in Myanmar
  • military coup and now civil war[s] between the military and local militias
  • “Radical Buddhism”

Ghosted, Ignored, Canceled? More Grist To Nourish All

I described this (now edited) April 29th Insight Timer live event as follows:

Let’s explore what can be done to transform, transmute and turn ghosting and being canceled into nourishment to support the well-being and awakening of all

Cancel Culture definitions:

a social environment in which publicly boycotting or withdrawing support for people, organizations, etc. regarded as promoting socially unacceptable beliefs is widespread practice

Cancel culture or call-out culture is a contemporary phrase used to refer to a form of ostracism in which someone is thrust out of social or professional circles – whether it be online, on social media, or in person. Those subject to this ostracism are said to have been “cancelled”. The expression “cancel culture” has mostly negative connotations and is used in debates on free speech and censorship.

Ghosting (behavior) definitions:

Stopping all communication with a person

Ghosting, also known as simmering or icing, is a colloquial term which describes the practice of ending all communication and contact with another person without any apparent warning or justification and subsequently ignoring any attempts to reach out or communication made by said person. The term originated in the early 2000s, typically referring to dating and romantic relationships. In the following decade, media reported a rise in ghosting, which has been attributed to the increasing use of social media and online dating apps. The term has also expanded to refer to similar practices among friends, family members, employers and businesses.

the practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication

Example: “I thought ghosting was a horrible dating habit reserved for casual flings”

After a disclaimer and the above definitions the approach is three-fold:

  1. what this feels like
  2. psychology involved
  3. perceptions, responses and action

But before this I mention:

  • not Johnny Depp trial related
  • frequency/how often
  • duration
  • some real life examples:
    • canceling stand off of who can cancel who before getting canceled [event example]
    • ignored at workplace
    • indifference from folks at neighborhood park
    • of me ghosting temporarily (partly as experiment) then explaining later, resulting in frustration toward me and my temporary (inverted) satisfaction

Feelings:

  • abandonment
  • neglect
  • desperation
  • neediness
  • light despair
  • empathing this?
  • rejection

Psychology:

  • misunderstanding (IG behavior example: follow many, rarely on for reciprocating likes, follows, messages, post and scroll for couple minutes)
  • triggers
  • expectations
  • separation
  • is/was this a good fit?
  • thought and emotions beforehand?
  • golden question: how can this be an opportunity?
  • can you invite more; invite absurd, imagined, feared extremes?
  • exception of victim/victimizer (abuse/abuser) cycles
  • put oneself in the other’s shoes
  • soliture, disentanglement, seclusion, disengagement, renunciation vs. isolation, loneliness, not belonging
  • (lack of) appreciation involved with frustration
  • social and professional status, worthiness, ego
  • power (plays), respecting power of shadow as expression of consciousness

Perceptions, responses and action:

  • being tested
  • compost, mulch, fertilizer
  • Four nutriments:
    • Physical food (kabalinkahara)
    • Sense impression (phassahara)
    • Volitional thoughts (mano sancetanahara)
    • Consciousness (vinnanahara)
  • anicca — inconstancy, changeability
  • separation (from 5 daily reflections)
  • the eight vicissitudes or worldly winds
  • real, authentic inclusivity
  • prompt, clear, concise communication
  • podcast guests example — chat instead of dismissing, not responding
  • balancing kindness with boundaries
  • aware of people pleasing
  • being superficiality agreeable in social situations — when someone says let’s meet/talk again soon (my podcast example)
  • integrity in word, honesty, kindness, boundaries, and forgiveness and resolve when falling short
  • a way into this: what are you leading with, what do you want to lead with, and find out what would be most effective to lead with. (Mine is truth at expense of awkwardness. Example of joking about malfunctioning light)
  • expressing views upfront (example of me working on not holding back until end)
  • welcoming; ease of coming/going
  • authentic recognition, acknowledgement, honor, respect

Takeaways: Cancel Culture can be a clearing; can teach us how much we value keeping our word; how uncertain life is; and how many things falling away can serve us well


Some comments from the live event:

  • ‘I’m curious to know why it is happening in our society…’
  • ‘I tend to ghost family and friends if they’re too offensive or negative for me to deal with them’
  • ‘Its a throw away society, people treat people like things that can be thrown away but we’re human with feelings’
    • [Integrating Presence July 22, 2023 note: the comment above came from a “Farnaz” and can’t remember if I said I would address it later or what but I made a note to look into it and I can’t figure it out exactly so if I need to say sorry: I’m sorry Farnaz. I relistened to this. I checked some audio on Wisdom app. I even tried looking Farnaz up on Insight Timer so if you’re reading this please get in touch if you’d like. I may have brought this comment up later on an Open Wisdom Wednesday, not sure either.
  • ‘Sometimes we don’t realize what we do to other people, I’m trying to be more mindful of my part’

Audio: Ghosted, Ignored, Canceled? More Grist To Nourish All

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