Breath, Light, The Inner Teacher And The Vastness Of Samadhi | Anapanasati Series With Richard Shankman

(Ai Assist:) Richard Shankman, author of the seminal book The Experience of Samādhi, gives a deep exploration of mindfulness of breathing (anapana), samadhi, jhana, and the fluid, often misunderstood nature of deep meditative states.

Key Themes Discussed:

  • Anapana as a Universal Doorway: Richard shares his 55-year practice rooted in breath meditation, emphasizing its accessibility and capacity to open into vast experiential domains.
  • Samadhi: Narrow Path or Infinite Unfolding? Richard challenges rigid interpretations of jhana, distinguishing between exclusive, one-pointed absorption (e.g., Pa-Auk, Visuddhimagga-based) and inclusive, open-awareness jhana (more aligned with sutta descriptions). He stresses that both are valid — different flavors, not depths.
  • Jhana Factors & Misinterpretations: A deep dive into vitakka-vicāra — are they “applied & sustained thought” (Visuddhimagga) or “mental movement/investigation” (sutta-based)? Richard cites Pali scholar Peter Skilling to highlight linguistic ambiguity and evolving interpretations over centuries.
  • Nimitta, Light, and Divine Experiences: Practitioners may encounter visual nimitta, bodily light, or even divine figures (e.g., Mother Mary) — experiences often dismissed in strict Theravada settings but validated here as authentic openings when met with wisdom.
  • Letting Go vs. Clinging to Maps: A central tension: follow the tradition or the living experience? Richard advocates steering with intention while honoring organic unfolding, guided by an inner teacher and supported by external mentorship.
  • Thinking Mind in Meditation: Practical advice: don’t fight thoughts. Give gentle preference to the breath, relax deeply, and let mental activity be background noise unless it demands attention (e.g., unresolved emotion).
  • Non-Clinging as Liberation: The practice ultimately simplifies into living with awareness, letting go when needed, and opening the heart — a portable, daily dharma beyond retreat halls.
  • Forgiveness & Ethical Awakening: Josh shares how embracing the Five Precepts and seeking forgiveness early in practice dramatically reduced remorse and mental agitation.

Tone & Takeaway

Warm, humble, and boldly honest, Richard dismantles dogmatic barriers while honoring tradition. The conversation is a compassionate invitation to trust one’s sincere intention, relax into practice, and remain open to the mystery — whether the path leads to nibbana, divine love, or simple daily presence.

Final Note from Richard:

“Even at your worst, your good intention is still alive. Return to that. You’re doing the best you can.”

0:00 – Show Soundbite: Self-Judgment & Good Intentions

1:11 – Welcome & Guest Intro: Richard Shankman

2:06 – Richard’s 55-Year Breath Practice

3:06 – Richard’s Book on Samadhi

4:15 – Richard’s Background: From Yoga to Theravāda

5:19 – No Longer Identifying as Buddhist

6:38 – Leaving the Raft Behind

7:50 – Anāpānasati Sutta & Breath Practice

9:03 – Narrow vs. Vast Paths in Dharma

12:14 – Divine Light & Mother Mary Experience

14:35 – Goenka vs. Pa-Auk Traditions

18:26 – One-Size-Fits-All vs. Personalized Practice

21:20 – Pa-Auk Jhanas & Nimitta

22:27 – Suta vs. Visuddhimagga Jhanas

30:23 – Narrow Path to Nibbāna vs. Opening to Divine

33:10 – Nibbāna, Deathless & Unfathomable Realities

37:21 – Liberation Through Non-Clinging

41:40 – Breath Practice & Nuts-and-Bolts

43:22 – Nothing to Do, Yet Developing on the Path

45:27 – Clinging, Letting Go & When It Lets Go of Us

47:19 – Jhanas: Exclusive vs. Inclusive Samadhi

52:27 – Why the Confusion Around Jhana Definitions

54:35 – Suttas vs. Visuddhimagga Divergence

57:19 – Vitakka-Vicāra: Two Interpretations

1:04:23 – One Mind, Two Streams in Jhana

1:06:23 – Evolution of Teachings Over Time

1:09:22 – It Doesn’t Matter Which Path—All Lead to Liberation

1:12:17 – Working with Thinking Mind

1:17:21 – Ethics, Remorse & Forgiveness

1:19:53 – Contact & Closing Message

Website: https://metadharma.org — Weekly Zoom group, retreats, and daylongs available

Email: meta@metadharma.org

Book: The Experience of Samadhi: An In-depth Exploration of Buddhist Meditation https://www.amazon.com/Experience-Samadhi-depth-Exploration-Meditation/dp/1590305213


Audio: Breath, Light, The Inner Teacher And The Vastness Of Samadhi | Anapanasati Series With Richard Shankman

Related post: https://integratingpresence.com/2021/05/06/types-of-samadhi-from-early-buddhist-texts


Unedited transcript via YouTube:

Show Soundbite: Self-Judgment & Good Intentions

We can be particularly hard on ourselves and judge ourselves by how well or

poorly good or bad we think we’re showing up or doing doing it, whatever the it is. And I understand that, but um

uh you know, how well or poorly we we act in any situation is really that’s just the conditioned patterns of our

minds. That’s what we’re working on is shifting the conditioned patterns. And if when that happens, what I found useful is to um connect back with what

my sincere as a dharma practitioner, my sincere um aspiration or intentions are.

And I’ll bet everyone has a good intention. And you know, whatever your own languaging is of wanting to live in a way that creates less suffering in the

world for yourself, for others, wants to create more well-being for yourself and for others. And if that’s true for you,

even when you’re at your worst, you can still know that you you really do care about that intention and that’s alive

for you. And I find it going back to that somehow and know that still is my good intention and I’m doing the best I

can. We’re all just doing the best I can. And then and then um is helpful so we’re not too hard on ourselves and we

can still stay attuned. Let that intention kind of be bolster us kind of

Welcome & Guest Intro: Richard Shankman

a thing. Welcome. This is Josh of Integrating Presence and today I have Richard

Shankman with me and hopefully I am containing my enthusiasm or bringing enough equinimity to my enthusiasm

because seriously I I really appreciate this. I’ve been doing exclusively for you know since I’ve practiced every day

since 2012. The last couple years my practice has been exclusive on anapana

around the anapana spot in the Pak tradition. just to give Richard a little bit of background here before I get

going and to make this kind of more real. And I still haven’t gotten imit.

So that’s kind of my bias a little bit, but I am also open to this huge topic on

many levels uh from the text, but we’re going to focus more on practice today. So I’m already jumping into it, but I’ll

throw it back here to Richard and say, Richard, what’s going on today and how are you? Uh well I’m well happy to be

Richard’s 55-Year Breath Practice

with you and um you know my I’ll just say my whole practice has been uh

mindfulness of breathing meditation for well I’ve been 55 years that’s a long

time this is great and I’ve done other practices you know but

really that has been and my experience has been

it just opens up and I think any practice we do can be a doorway

to open into everything you know it’s a it’s a question of finding each person’s

uh best way and so for those for whom mindfulness of breathing in its many

many varieties is a good practice and I think it is probably for

many many people um that um um you know it’s been a doorway kind of to

everything so um really I would that’s been my practice Awesome. I I again I am so overly enthusiastic

Richard’s Book on Samadhi

here. Hopefully it’s it’s balanced somewhat because for those of you probably everybody listening to this

would know that Richard has kind of this seinal book I would say on samadei. Um,

and not only I would say and I and I’m not that familiar actually. I haven’t gone through it in detail, but I would

venture to say it is really comprehensive and very thorough and wide reaching and

at the same time very accessible and and practical as well. And so maybe you

would touch a little bit on this a little bit before we jump right into to Sami and any kind of background. I think

um other than what you said, I think that’s kind of um yeah, before we just jump right in here.

Um well, there was a couple of things. I’m not sure. Perhaps you can guide me. Um um I’m as far as a little background.

Um I mean, you said something about the book and maybe should I just say something about that? That’s kind of how you know me or

Yeah, I I would think so. And of course, your name comes up in Dharma Talks from time to time, especially when people

talk about samadei, you know. Yeah. So the book title in your name comes up here and there, you know. Yeah.

Richard’s Background: From Yoga to Theravāda

Well, you know, I came up so first I’ll just say my original practice actually started in 1970 and I was more in a um

what would you say Hindu oriented yoga traditions. I lived in an ashram and um

actually I was doing mostly breath meditation. It was a different different tradition and different way of just

framing everything. And then it was in um kind of the early or mid70s I I was

still meditating but I ended up more in the Buddhist oriented kind of terravada oriented world and I’ that’s been kind

of my world I’ve sort of lived in uh of course h well having I don’t want to get

us too far off but having said that of course as the practice becomes more and more alive you really end up you’re not

in any tradition anymore. It’s just the aliveness of being and you know where’s

Buddhism that in that. So that’s a that’s a big topic. People might say but wait a minute what do you mean? So but

so to be honest with you that well it’s too late. I have to say now so people

No Longer Identifying as Buddhist

who I work with wouldn’t really know this but I actually don’t identify as a Buddhist anymore. I nobody would know

that. I this is the tradition. It’s the it’s the formulation. It’s the framework. tremendous respect and

gratitude for it. But it in my own self like in in the in just the moment in

just the aliveness of being there’s no you wouldn’t say it’s a Buddhist thing

but we still don’t want to throw the path out too soon right

well yeah you make good points you know even the Buddha said um eventually the d the draft easy for me to say

or the raft right the raft of dhhamma has to be left behind on the further shore right so that’s there’s that and I always tell

people basically the same thing, you know, I don’t consider myself a Buddhist. I study and practice this

primarily right now, you know, but and to me, I don’t even look at Buddhism as a religion anyway. To me, one way to

frame it maybe is um one approach of how to see into the true nature of reality,

the way things actually are. And the best way to go about doing that for my own well-being and for the well-being of

others and especially in the long term. So, I can definitely resonate with this. I think you’re you’re alluding to even

going beyond that as well. Um, of course, let’s not let’s not jump out of the raft too soon.

Leaving the Raft Behind

Yeah. Yeah, I’m still definitely on the raft by all. Also, I want to say uh just I hope just

to clarify, you know, I’m not making I’m not making any claims for myself. I

don’t make any claims. I would say um you know, anyway, I feel like I’m

very appreciative and gratified. um and about what the practice has done and

where it’s kind of done for me and gotten. So, in that way, uh it’s been

great. And I’m not making any I don’t make claims about it in any way. I just want and I’m that’s not me. I’m not

that’s not code for I really am making claims, but I’m too humble to say it. I

mean, for real. Yeah. No, it’s a good point. And I I I’m heavy with disclaimers myself a lot of

times. So it is is really helpful that you know and I’ll just say right now

this is of course it should be obvious but this is my current understanding where I’m at now. I’m open to you know

being completely wrong with everything and and moving beyond that. But for right now this is the the the best I’m

able and you know accessible. So so let’s jump in here. the the anopana. I guess we can um reference maybe the

Anāpānasati Sutta & Breath Practice

anopanana sati suta. And I think to keep it even more accessible and still foundational for anybody doing this

practice, we can kind of just stay maybe more focused towards the the opening

part of it, you know. So, um, like I I guess maybe one place to jump in here is

how like what are some kind of fundamental similarities and differences between, you know, the the tradition

you’re in before the um Hindu maybe oriented tradition and where the the Buddhist tradition and I’ll just, you

know, some ways we can answer here. You can we can answer for the absolute completely beginner that has no idea of

any of this stuff. we’ve got maybe more of an intuitive level of I how much we

can sense into who may be listening to this and maybe in the future and maybe with repeated listenings. I don’t know

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Trust | “Meditation Q & A With Wendy Nash” #36


In this thirty-sixth installment of the ongoing live series with Wendy Nash inquiring into meditation practice on and off the cushion we delve into trust: its aspects in and outside of formal meditation and how these interrelate and feed into each other as well as the importance of trust for so many things. To name a few: confidence, courage, openness, honesty, safety, intuition, friendship, ethics, societal functionality and their opposites and spectrums

Ai basically summarized our chat thus:

Wendy’s Personal Story

  • Wendy shares a recent skin cancer diagnosis and treatment on her face (near the right eye, stitches down the cheek).
  • She contrasts a disinterested doctor (free clinic) with a trusted one who showed genuine care, skill, and diligence.
  • Removal was timely; further growth could have reached the eye. Stitches removed that morning – painful but successful.
  • Contrasts her minor issue with her computer guy’s stage-4 esophageal cancer.
  • Core insight: Trust begins with “mattering” – does the other person’s well-being matter to them? (Inspired by a recent book on relationships.)

Core Themes of Trust

Interpersonal Trust

  • Interest in the other’s well-being builds trust.
  • Honesty, competence, boundaries, and straightforwardness are key.
  • Lack of honesty or self-centeredness erodes trust; some people are instinctively trustworthy due to broader worldview.

Self-Trust & Meditation

  • Meditation reveals self-clarity: “It’s often me being the idiot” – seeing unskillful behavior without self-flagellation.
  • Builds self-trust by testing the Dharma (“kick the tires”) – Wendy transformed from angry to calm through practice.
  • Trust in practice yields confidence: “I can sit, let go, and just be.”

Spiritual/Buddhist Dimensions

  • Trust in karma, impermanence, and universal laws (faith + field-testing).
  • Equanimity amid dukkha (old age, sickness, death); trust in goodness/order despite chaos.
  • Links to faith (saddha) in Buddha, Dharma, Sangha; balances with wisdom (paññā).

Wisdom (Paññā) Clarified

  • Not intellectual knowledge, but direct seeing of impermanence, dukkha, non-self (anatta).
  • Three levels: hearing (suta-maya), reflection (cinta-maya), meditation/insight (bhāvanā-maya).
  • Experiential, compassionate; cuts ignorance (avidyā). Wisdom without heart is cold; compassion without wisdom is sentimental.

Cultural & Societal Trust

  • Cross-cultural experiences (Australia, UK, US, Denmark, monasteries):
    • Xenophobia often stems from unfamiliarity, not racism.
    • Cultural norms shape identity; abroad, one feels liberated or lonely (e.g., English reserve vs. Australian openness).
    • Monasteries offer universal Dharma ground beyond cultural overlays.
  • Societal level: “In God We Trust” (added 1950s) reflects social contract (e.g., currency).
  • Modern erosion: Capitalism reduces people to data/productivity → hollow, lonely, less trust in institutions.

Trust in Relationships & Society

  • Golden Rule: Openness to foreigners; friendliness (metta) repels harm.
  • Goal-oriented (Protestant work ethic) vs. relational focus → distorted effort, complacency.
  • Lack of societal trust: Governments/employers not prioritizing welfare → “I don’t matter.”

Key Practices & Takeaways

  • Meditation as Container: Observe self in context, own fallibility, build broader view.
  • Self-Reflection Questions:
  • Why don’t I trust myself? (Acknowledge unskillful acts with sincerity.)
  • What would life be without trust in reality? (Maddening.)
  • Tibetan Slogan (Closing): “Of the two witnesses, trust the principal one.” – Only you know when you’re kidding yourself.

Tone: Raw, personal, humorous, paradoxical. Trust is relational, experiential, and cultivated through practice – from doctor’s stitches to global society. Ends on hope: Deepen self-trust for good reasons.


*There’s naturally an ongoing open call for meditation (related) questions for the (roughly) monthly “Meditation Q & A” either by the various social media means listed; integratingpresence[at]protonmail.com or just showing to type/ask live.*



Background

Regular, current and past visitors to Integrating Presence may recall the monthly series “Ask Us Anything” I did with Denny K Miu from August 2020 until January 2022 — partially including and continuing on with Lydia Grace as co-host for awhile until March 2022.

For a few months thereafter I did various Insight Timer live events exploring potential new directions and/or a continuation of the Ask Us Anything format while weaving in other related teachings to these events.

Then, after chats with meditation coach Wendy Nash, it became clear to start a new collaboration similar to “Ask Us Anything” simply and clearly called “Meditation Q & A” especially due to the original intent of the Ask Us Anything’s being “discussions about meditation and related topics.”



Past chats with Wendy:



Audio: Trust | “Meditation Q & A With Wendy Nash” #36

Or listen via Insight Timer (app or website)


Unedited transcript via YouTube:

ating presence and today I have uh very intrepid Wendy Nash with me. Wendy,

what’s going on? Well, hello. Greetings from Gubby Gabby country in Queensland in Kula in

Australia. So, uh Queensland is the skin cancer capital of the world and I am not

immune. So, it’s been an interesting journey. Today, I think we’re going to talk about trust. So, I thought that was

very interesting. So, I was at the doctor this morning. We had to shift a couple of hours later because of my doctor’s appointment. And basically I I

thought about trust quite a bit because actually I’ve got this well a I I went

and so I’m sort of trusting the doctor in June. I have to get skin cancer checked every day every every year. Um,

and I went to the the the doctor cuz I trust that he’s going to do a good job

cuz I went to another doctor, skin doctor clinic, and I just felt they were

that he was, it was a free service, but he was terrible. He didn’t seem

interested. So, I thought trust is actually having an interest in the other person’s well-being. Like, it already

starts to build from there. So, I went in June and then he said, “There’s

something here. It’s probably nothing, but if you start to feel a bit uncomfortable, just come back and we’ll

shave it.” So, I I went I went, “Yeah, no, I want it out.” So, he shaved it and

uh it never really healed and I thought it was just a pimple or you know, like

something. And then I was at the GPS a couple of weeks ago and at the doctor and she said, “I think that’s a skin

cancer.” So I was going, “Oh.” So I went up to the hospital cuz I couldn’t get an

appointment in time and I just went they’ve got a really good clinic up the road and um public hospital and

he said and she said, “No, that’s that’s a skin cancer.” So I’m going, “Okay.”

So, I went in and um and they said, “Yep, look, it’s probably nothing. It’s

probably just a biopsy and that’s fine.” And then they got the biopsy back and they went, “No, that’s a skin cancer.”

And so, he had to So, I’ve had a couple of procedures since we last met. And so, he had to take I hope you’re not

squeamish. So he had to take out quite a quite a kind of he was drawing it with

his marker, you know, quite a a size and a bit of a line. And then he

and so he sewed it up and it’s actually just here, but this the stitches go all the way

down to here, which I’m a bit weird about. So last Wednesday, that was Wednesday

last week, he put the stitches in and and everything and I was a bit I’m

pleased to have it up, but and I have to trust that he’s he’s kind of got it all,

you know, and I have to trust that he’s going to give me a look at the end

because this is my face. I’m not a particularly vain person, but nonetheless, I don’t want to look like a pirate for the rest of my life. And so

I’ve got this so it’s this line I’m going is this going to be like a permanent line in the middle of my face

and I I think probably the answer is yes. But on Thursday I was trying to I was

talking with my uh uh my computer guy and I said, “Oh, look, I haven’t seen

you in ages. Are you can you fix up just this thing cuz it’s actually super urgent.” And he said, “Look, I’ve just

been diagnosed with stage 4 esophageal cancer.” So I’m going, okay, I’m going to have to find somebody else about

that. So this idea of trust and so this morning I

went to the the skin doctor and he took out the stitches and it it actually really hurt because of the way

stitches and I won’t go who are squeamish and and it was just it did hurt a little

bit but it’s done. And he said basically if if it had grown any more

he would actually have been a real problem because it would have been too close up to the eye. They wouldn’t have had enough skin for the stitches. So I

have to he said I got everything. So clinically you’re safe. You you got I

got everything but histoologgically it wasn’t kind of that edge. And so that

sense of creep out, you know, this Queensland, I was on the way back and, you know, skin cancers. So I’ve been

hearing skin cancer stories all week cuz I had these stitches on my face and a

bandage. It’s like and I’ve also had, you know, networking events and stuff. And so there is a so much trust. I have

to trust that he’s going to do clean stitches. I have to trust that he is skillful in his knowledge. I have to

trust that he is diligent and competent

and I have to trust that today’s medical capacities

actually are going to be good enough. So normally they say come back in a year and this morning he said see you in six

months. I’m like okay. So there’s it it’s one thing to go, yeah, I

mean, I don’t really want to have a big line in the middle of my face, but I sort of want skin cancer less. You know,

you got to make the decision that is the least bad often. And so I’m going, okay, well, that’s

that. And it’s not stage four esophageal cancer. So trust that’s I said I would

tell you about it when I saw you and you’re like, “Oh yeah, something happened to you.” So that’s what happened to me. Josh is just hearing

this for the first time, boys and girls. That’s right. This is the um this is where the rubber meets the road with

with practice. And for those of you who are not seeing this and just listening to the audio, uh Wendy has a a bandage

near the top of her left eye. Is I can’t tell with the mirroring. Left or right eye? Right eye. Okay.

It’s actually the top of the right eye. So, you know, if you think about when you’re wearing glasses and and you’ve got that the little foot of the glasses

that sits where the the frames are. So, it sort of is there. It’s where the actual skin cancer is. And then the

stitches go down across the cheek. So, if you go directly under the eye, probably about 3 cm, so 10 stitches down

the down the face. So, so apologies for those who are squeamish, but it’s okay, you know.

Yeah. I mean, well, you’re going through it. I mean, yeah, it’s one thing to be squeamish. It’s another thing to

actually have to to to to do this. You’re, you know, so yeah. And so trust.

Yeah. We’re just a minute here to uh Yeah. And I never really uh I guess

framed it in the way you did, which is a great way to do it. Um is that you have

kind of this feeling that someone cares, right? Um is that how you framed it? Do

it more explicitly again. Yeah. Yeah. It is you you you have to be

trust is does have an element that the other person cares about me actually

that I’ve been actually looking a lot who’s just published a book and he said

that mattering so not resilience not self-esteem but mattering is what matter

is what kind of is the core of relationships. So does my well-being matter to my

doctor? That’s the basis of that’s the foundation of trust. So

do you matter and do I matter? Do each other matter? This is the foundation of

trust. I think you know it’s really interesting to to contemplate it this way. I guess I come

at trust a different way. I think of something else a lot. I think of is is

this person trustworthy? are they full of BS? Are they trying to deceive me?

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“The Supernatural and the Divine” Chapter 9 From Buddhadhamma: The Laws Of Nature And Their Benefits To Life

This is the ninth chapter “The Supernatural and the Divine” from the book:

Buddhadhamma: The Laws Of Nature And Their Benefits To Life
by Bhikkhu P. A. Payutto (Somdet Phra Buddhaghosacariya)

Published by Buddhadhamma Foundation
Copyright © Buddhadhamma Foundation 2021
Translated by Robin Philip Moore

Editor: Bhikkhu Kovilo, typesetting: Bhikkhu Gambhīro

Download this e-book in PDF, EPUB and MOBI formats at the following address: https://buddhadhamma.github.io

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Bridging Ancient & Modern: Bhutan’s Landmark Global Peace Prayer Festival With Asoka


Global prayer for peace echoes across Bhutan: Event festivities highlight compassion, harmony, and cultural heritage, writes Jitsiree Thongnoi in Bhutanhttps://www.bangkokpost.com/world/3134848/global-prayer-for-peace-echoes-across-bhutan


(Ai assist:) In this swapcast episode I speak with Asoka from “Echoes and Story of Dharma” about the inaugural Global Peace Prayer Festival in Bhutan, scheduled from November 4-19, 2025. The discussion provides an accessible overview of Bhutan as a small Himalayan kingdom with a population of about 750,000, renowned as the world’s last Vajrayana Buddhist kingdom, a carbon-negative nation, and the originator of Gross National Happiness (GNH)—a holistic alternative to GDP that emphasizes contentment, environmental protection, and human well-being. Asoka delves into Bhutan’s history, including its self-imposed isolation until the 1970s, the influence of Padmasambhava (the “second Buddha”), and how Vajrayana Buddhism integrates compassion, wisdom, and power into daily life and governance.

The festival, centered around honoring the 70th birthday of Bhutan’s fourth king on November 11, has evolved from a single Kalachakra empowerment into a two-week event featuring large-scale pujas (rituals), mantra chanting for protection and peace, a three-day Kalachakra mandala ceremony (focusing on non-duality and interdependence), global prayers dedicated to the king, and a nuns’ ordination ceremony to advance women’s roles in Vajrayana. The event aims to promote global peace amid ongoing conflicts, drawing on Buddhist concepts like bodhicitta (Buddha nature in all beings) and the power of mantras to counter greed, hatred, delusion, ignorance, and jealousy.

They address misconceptions about Bhutan, such as the Sustainable Development Fee (SDF, now $100/day, covering most travel costs for high-value, low-volume tourism). The conversation emphasizes the festival’s timeliness in a world of war rhetoric, climate change, and AI-driven modernity, advocating for bridging ancient devotional practices with contemporary tools like a mantra-logging app (Guru App) to engage youth and foster a “butterfly effect” of positive energy. Participation options include in-person attendance (with visa and travel details), live streaming via Bhutan Broadcasting Service (BBS) on YouTube, virtual mantra contributions, or organizing local watch parties. The episode concludes with reflections on preserving pure Dharma amid technological shifts, encouraging discernment and inner peace. 

Overall, the podcast blends educational insights on Bhutanese Buddhism with calls to action for global harmony, making it appealing for Buddhists, spiritual seekers, and those interested in sustainable societies. The tone is conversational, respectful, and occasionally light-hearted 

(Note: these timestamps are clickable to jump to that spot in the youtube version🙂

TimestampChapter Title
0:00Introduction and Greetings
0:52Overview of the Global Peace Prayer Festival in Bhutan
2:00Bhutan Basics: Geography, Population, and Vajrayana Kingdom
4:01Bhutan’s Rise: Environment, Happiness, and Gross National Happiness (GNH)
8:07History of Buddhism in Bhutan: Padmasambhava and Vajrayana Origins
11:05Explaining Vajrayana: Third Turning of the Wheel, Bodhicitta, and Symbolism
17:02Dharma Protectors, Wrathful Deities, and Parallels to Other Buddhist Traditions
20:57Vajrayana in Bhutan’s Governance and Enlightened Leadership
25:00Festival Details: Jhabi Puja, Kalachakra, Global Prayers, and Nuns’ Ordination
32:18Host’s Reflections and Comic Relief on Bhutanese Culture
36:40Clearing Misconceptions: SDF Fee, Tourism, and Visiting Bhutan
42:38Why Now? Kalachakra, Kali Yuga, and Global Conflicts
45:07The Fourth King’s Legacy: Stepping Down and Democratic Transition
53:08Ways to Participate: In-Person, Live Stream, App, and Watch Parties
59:02Empowerment Energy: Beyond Physical Attendance
1:01:52Peace in Perspective: Inner Work, Butterfly Effect, and Sacred Bhutan
1:06:35Bridging Traditions: Women’s Roles, Youth, and Modernity
1:13:38Preserving Pure Dharma in the AI Era
1:17:23Connecting with Bhutanese Communities and Final Thoughts
1:22:18Closing Blessings and Farewell

https://globalpeaceprayers.org

https://www.globalpeaceprayers.org/faq.html

https://globalpeaceprayers.org/old/registration.php

Enlightened Leadership — book by the current sitting Prime Minister of Bhutan: https://www.penguin.sg/book/enlightened-leadership/ 

FB page: https://www.facebook.com/people/Global-Peace-Prayer-Festival/61579817360896 

IG: https://www.instagram.com/gppbhutan 


These three event photo published with permission from copyright holder©️Michael Kenneally


Bhutan Broadcasting Service (BBS) Official live streams: 


iOS app: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/global-peace-prayer-festival/id6754213180


Travel Agent: 


Mantra app: https://www.guruapp.bt (will launch on November 4th the initial day of event) 


Asoka’s Echoes & Stories of Dharma podcast: 

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/echoes-stories-of-dharma/id1709712445 

https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/78a58d8c-70d1-411c-8c86-b9c49d76e696/echoes-stories-of-dharma 

https://www.instagram.com/echoes_and_stories_of_dharma 

https://www.youtube.com/@Dhammaonthesidewalk108


Audio: Bridging Ancient & Modern: Bhutan’s Landmark Global Peace Prayer Festival With Asoka

Unedited transcript via YouTube:

Hey, welcome. This is Josh of Innerskilled and Integrating Presence and today I have none other than Ahsoka

here to do a swap cast. Ahsoka from Echoes and Story of Dharma. Ahsoka,

how’s it going today? It’s going really good today and I

realize we are in a completely different time zone. So, good evening to you or is good morning to me.

That’s right. It’s like a 12 sound.

Yeah. You’re welcome. Well, thanks for having me, too. If you decide to, uh, crossost this. I remember back in the

days of the internet, you’re never supposed to crossost anything, but now it’s it’s totally cool to do that, I

think. So, um, so why we’re here today, I’m gonna throw it back to you. Uh,

Overview of the Global Peace Prayer Festival in Bhutan

we’ve got a big event coming up, and Ahsoka, what do we got going on? what’s going

on. So I think you’re talking you’re

mentioning the global peace prayer festival in uh it’s going to be held in Bhutan from the 4th to the 19th of

November and um it’s a large event and it’s a first time event. So this doesn’t

want to mean that Bhutan doesn’t organize large scale events. It does and

religious events as well. I mean such as um empowerments and ceremonies but

usually they are not as public and organized in a way that to attract uh

global audience and uh this one is very um special in that. So it’s a landmark

first time ever event. Would you like me to elaborate a bit on it? Well, you’re going to have to I

guess the background maybe some some background for these uh

Bhutan Basics: Geography, Population, and Vajrayana Kingdom

the people that are Buddhists and maybe just Terravada or people that aren’t even Buddhists, you know. What is what

is Bhutan? What even is Bhutan? Give the basic just a nutshell version for people

that don’t know anything. you know what is Vajriana and what is Bhutan or do we

even need to know anything about that for this event and and the event itself

global peace prayer festival I mean it’s kind of self-explanatory but we’ll get

into the details of what this is and why it’s so important and I’ll um echo the

importance of this I feel from what I’ve little I’ve read about it and what you’ve told me about it

Okay. So, let’s just start by saying Bhutan is uh a Himalayan kingdom. It’s a

very small geographically it’s a very small country uh of only 750,000

population wide. So, it’s quite small with uh only maybe up to 15 20% of the

population living in um Timu. Timu not being the capital.

Uh yes, I mean sorry Timu is the capital but it’s not where the airport is based.

So people get sometimes a little misguided. So Paro is because of the

mountainous uh so we are talking about 2,500 meter elevation as a minimum in terms of the

airport elevation. So that’s far and then timu is about an hour an hour from

there inside in western Bhutan. So it’s also called uh the last vajayana or the

only vajayana kingdom in the world. Why is it called like that? First of all,

Bhutan’s Rise: Environment, Happiness, and Gross National Happiness (GNH)

it’s um I think we need to go back a bit to uh

how come Bhutan is so much on the center stage at the moment in a number of on a

number of topic. It’s not just Vajayana, it’s environment because they are carbon

negative country. um because it’s a kingdom, it’s also a

very traditional society where you would see uh people wearing uh the traditional

their traditional clothing, men and women. So there are a number of aspect

that make Bhutan a very very peculiar very special country. It’s also known to

be the country the the country of happiness. So the happy country what

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Is There An Objective Purpose In Life? | “Meditation Q & A With Wendy Nash” #35



In this thirty-fifth installment of the ongoing live series with Wendy Nash inquiring into meditation practice on and off the cushion we delve into this question from user “xXHishamXx” we received at the end of last month’s session: “Is There An Objective Purpose In Life?” including relevance to meditation practice.

My short answer is answering it with what the Buddha taught: dukkha and the end of dukkha or suffering and the end of suffering.

We also mention neighborhood apps and community engagement; give existential reflections that include Buddhist principles and personal anecdotes; the role of ego; the importance of community and belonging vs individualism; cultural sensitivity in service (especially regarding indigenous communities); how meditation fosters clarity, kindness, and skillful intentions; we caution against unskillful motivations like revenge or the “drama triangle” while emphasizing relationality, humility, and learning as pathways to meaning. We end inviting consideration that life’s purpose can be reflected upon in this very existence and in our relational interactions.

I forgot to mention a few things like the potential dangers of gamifying life. If we look at everything in life through the googles of game theory as merely games to be won we open can after can of nasty worms, vomit, excrement, etc. How much of a winner or loser will one be on one’s death bed? How much will past wins and losses matter then? Discarding winning and losing, and being calm, and being wise is the alternative:

Victory breeds hatred,

The defeated live in pain.

The wise one, discarding both victory and defeat,

Lives in happiness.

~ Dhammapada verse 201

There’s also the dangers of falling into the extremes of eternalism and/or nihilism when considering the purpose of life. There’s potentially a lot to mention so I’ll just boil part of it down to when there’s an overemphasis on wisdom and/or moving away from the heart and pushing and pushing this to the extreme one could then get into nihilistic tendencies which are not beneficial for oneself and others — even in the long term. You’ll have to investigate, reflect and contemplate this for yourself as I’m not going to unpack it now.

Conversely, those giving too much emphasis on certain aspects — especially certain heart qualities — without wisdom seem to be more prone to falling into eternalism which can be a trap on the other end of the spectrum from nihilism. It goes like this: What if you want to get off the wheel of foreverness of the eternal? Well too bad because you can’t because you go on forever and there’s no option or choice to do otherwise.

So what would then be the point, especially of being urgent about anything? What would any one action really matter given its place in the vast amount of time of foreverness with no way off or no way out? Do you see how these extremes can even feed on each other? These are just a few reasons I can see why the Buddha advised against them.

Another high water mark is existence and non-existence are not even really relevant when it comes to the point of “spirituality”. Of this quadlemma the Buddha (here Tathagata) expounds:

Vacchagotta, the position that ‘the Tathagata exists after death,’ does not apply; ‘the Tathagata does not exist after death,’ does not apply; ‘the Tathagata both exists and does not exist after death,’ does not apply; ‘the Tathagata neither exists nor does not exist after death,’ does not apply. This is because the Tathagata, having abandoned all physical and mental aggregates, is deep, immeasurable, hard to fathom, like the great ocean.(Majjhima Nikaya 72)

To wrap up there’s the drama triangle podcast episode I mentioned and a somewhat related 50 some part series Awaking from the Meaning Crisis:


*There’s naturally an ongoing open call for meditation (related) questions for the (roughly) monthly “Meditation Q & A” either by the various social media means listed; integratingpresence[at]protonmail.com or just showing to type/ask live.*



Background

Regular, current and past visitors to Integrating Presence may recall the monthly series “Ask Us Anything” I did with Denny K Miu from August 2020 until January 2022 — partially including and continuing on with Lydia Grace as co-host for awhile until March 2022.

For a few months thereafter I did various Insight Timer live events exploring potential new directions and/or a continuation of the Ask Us Anything format while weaving in other related teachings to these events.

Then, after chats with meditation coach Wendy Nash, it became clear to start a new collaboration similar to “Ask Us Anything” simply and clearly called “Meditation Q & A” especially due to the original intent of the Ask Us Anything’s being “discussions about meditation and related topics.”



Audio: Is There An Objective Purpose In Life? | “Meditation Q & A With Wendy Nash” #35

Or listen via Insight Timer (app or website)


Past chats with Wendy:



“Calm And Insight” Chapter 8 From Buddhadhamma: The Laws Of Nature And Their Benefits To Life

This is the eighth chapter “Calm And Insight” from the book:

Buddhadhamma: The Laws Of Nature And Their Benefits To Life
by Bhikkhu P. A. Payutto (Somdet Phra Buddhaghosacariya)

Published by Buddhadhamma Foundation
Copyright © Buddhadhamma Foundation 2021
Translated by Robin Philip Moore

Editor: Bhikkhu Kovilo, typesetting: Bhikkhu Gambhīro

Download this e-book in PDF, EPUB and MOBI formats at the following address: https://buddhadhamma.github.io

This is a gift not for sale / to be sold. I just read it and claim zero copyright. Please support https://www.buddhadhammafoundation.com


Audio: “Calm And Insight” Chapter 8 From Buddhadhamma: The Laws Of Nature And Their Benefits To Life

Death, Breath, and Awakening: From Punk To Zen And Mindfulness Yoga | Anapanasati Series With Frank Jude Boccio

(Ai helps sum up nicely thus:) Zen and yoga teacher Frank Jude Boccio and I chat about the intersections of mindfulness, yoga, and Buddhist practice. Frank shares his journey from the punk scene in New York to decades of teaching meditation and yoga, influenced by Thích Nhất Hạnh and Zen traditions. We explore mindfulness of the body, contemplations on death, the breath as practice, challenges with meditation, and integrating awareness into daily life through micro-practices. Frank also reflects on sound meditation, student–teacher relationships, and the liberating power of aligning with impermanence and truth. [There’s also kind of a punk rock moment when my camera falls over]


0:00 – Introduction & weather chat
2:48 – Who is Frank Jude Boccio?
3:27 – Early life, punk scene, sister’s death, discovering Buddhist practice
4:24 – Influence of Thích Nhất Hạnh and Satipatthana
6:01 – Vietnamese Buddhist traditions (Mahayana & Theravada blend)
7:23 – Teaching mindfulness with a Mahayana heart
8:31 – Yoga background and integrating mindfulness
10:01 – Mindfulness Yoga explained
12:07 – Mindfulness of the body, inner smile practice, body image
14:14 – Elements practice & contemplation of death
16:12 – Reflections on mortality, impermanence, and non-fear
20:06 – The Five Remembrances & cancer diagnosis
23:01 – Breath and death awareness
24:07 – Zen story: breath and urgency
27:03 – Teacher-student relationships in Buddhist traditions
29:41 – Frank’s approach to teaching Anapanasati
31:16 – Shamatha practice distinctions
33:27 – Jhana controversies & Abhidhamma insights
36:14 – Challenges with basic breath practice
37:05 – Informal practice & micro-practices (tooth brushing, bells of mindfulness)
40:33 – Common challenges: controlling the breath
43:42 – Breath focus at nostrils, belly, and hara traditions
47:01 – Eyes open vs. closed meditation styles
48:26 – Sound meditation & equanimity
52:42 – Concentration vs. mindfulness: funnel vs. hourglass metaphor
55:17 – Earworms & pop music in meditation
56:12 – Humor and ease in Zen teaching
57:26 – Frank’s offerings
1:01:27 – Closing blessing & dedication of merit


Frank Jude Boccio’s Website: mindfulnessyoga.net

Book: Mindfulness Yoga: The Awakened Union of Breath, Body, and Mind (Wisdom Publications)
Publisher link | Amazon link

Articles/Essays: Boccio has contributed to Yoga Journal, Tricycle, Shambhala Sun, and anthologies like 21st Century Yoga and Freeing the Body, Freeing the Mind.


Audio: Death, Breath, and Awakening: From Punk To Zen And Mindfulness Yoga | Anapanasati Series With Frank Jude Boccio


Unedited transcript via YouTube:

welcome. This is Josh Depold of Integrating Presence and today I have Frank Jude Boshio with me. Frank, what’s

going on today? Uh it’s a pretty warm day here. I’m in Tucson and uh it’s between rains like in

in the summer we get like this heat that builds up with humidity and then there’s

a big storm and then for a few days it’s like really cool and nice and then it builds up again. And uh one of my one of

my friends was like saying this time it feels like it’s taking too long, you know, like as well as she put it for

play is going on too long. She just wants the rain, you know, and that’s how I think we’re all feeling.

Well, maybe there’s more tension building then. Um, but yeah, it’s it’s been hot here in Prague, too. Um, I

think we’re supposed to, Speaking of that, we’re supposed to get rain. Uh, they’re calling for a chance tomorrow and things will cool down a little bit,

but I don’t think anything like the Tucson heat. I I can’t imagine. And coming from Denmark, too, um, where it’s

really nice and cool. So I honestly in Missouri weather I’m not missing it at all honestly. But

Missouri was pretty humid right? Ah yes it’s really humid during the during the summers for the most part.

Really cold too in the winter but yeah everybody talks about like well he where you are it’s hot but it’s dry heat. And

I was like dry heat at 110 degrees is still hot. It’s like you’re in an oven

you know. Yeah. It’s like opening the oven up. Yeah. But what they don’t understand is that in the summer when it’s the hottest

is also when it’s the most humid. So yeah, and um a little bit of

technology here. We have swamp coolers. I mean obviously wealthier people have ACs, but like and so swamp coolers work

really well when it is hot and dry because what they do is they suck the hot dry in air in. They pass it through

this like organic material and then it blows into the house cool

moisture air, right? So, you have to keep your windows open, which I like because AC it’s so claustrophobic. But

when it’s humid, they’re not as effective. So, the time when you want it the most, they don’t really work as

well. It It’s called a swamp cooler. Yeah. Yeah. Evaporative cooler, but

Okay. Evaporative cooler. I have to check these out because in in Missouri, you know, it’s it’s Yeah. We want less

swamp. And people say it’s because of all the artificial uh corn or some I’ve just heard that recently. So much corn

gives off so much transpiration and that’s why a lot of um weird humidity in Missouri. I don’t know if there’s

anything to that, but either way, yeah, hot. So, so here here we are in in

wherever the weather is where you’re at listening to this, I hope it’s okay enough. And I’ll ask you the standard

question that I often do. And who is Frank and what kind of work does he do?

Well, Frank is uh it’s taken me a longer time because I

grew up at a time where we wanted to be assimilated, but um I’m second

generation Italian uh American and uh born in New York, raised in New York. Uh

went through uh the whole punk scene. I was a DJ, right? But what got me into

Buddhist practice was that I did have a half sister who was about 15 years older than me who died of uh cancer when I was

16. And uh it’s a very familiar story. I mean like I can’t believe how you more

and more whenever I read about things it’s like what leads people to practice often is some kind of loss. you know,

Dogen was because he was an orphan and the Buddha himself when he recognized that we’re all going to die, you know.

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Aspects Of Metta (Loving-kindness) | “Meditation Q & A With Wendy Nash” #34


In this thirty-fourth installment of the ongoing live series with Wendy Nash inquiring into meditation practice on and off the cushion we delve into the various aspects of Metta / Loving-kindness ranging from the more common place to those that may be not as well known and the many aspects in-between this boundless, immeasurable state. Share whatever you’d like about Metta in the comments or just watch to help strengthen your own practice


Some of our past chats related to metta:


*There’s naturally an ongoing open call for meditation (related) questions for the (roughly) monthly “Meditation Q & A” either by the various social media means listed; integratingpresence[at]protonmail.com or just showing to type/ask live.*



Background

Regular, current and past visitors to Integrating Presence may recall the monthly series “Ask Us Anything” I did with Denny K Miu from August 2020 until January 2022 — partially including and continuing on with Lydia Grace as co-host for awhile until March 2022.

For a few months thereafter I did various Insight Timer live events exploring potential new directions and/or a continuation of the Ask Us Anything format while weaving in other related teachings to these events.

Then, after chats with meditation coach Wendy Nash, it became clear to start a new collaboration similar to “Ask Us Anything” simply and clearly called “Meditation Q & A” especially due to the original intent of the Ask Us Anything’s being “discussions about meditation and related topics.”



Playlist of past chats with Wendy:



Audio: Aspects Of Metta (Loving-kindness) | “Meditation Q & A With Wendy Nash” #34

Or listen via Insight Timer (app or website)


Unedited transcript via YouTube:

Welcome. This is Josh Integrating Presence and Wendy Nash is back again with me. Wendy, what’s up?

Well, just before you came on air, I got half an hour ago, I got an email from my

accountant. It’s tax time. And she said, “Here are the queries that we have. You

need to send this more information.” And I went, “Ah.” And I tried to get everything done. And I just I just need

to get that one little thing done and I’ll do it after the show.

Yeah. I know how frustrating that is cuz I had to file a extension for my taxes and I finally got that done. Excuse me.

And what a relief that is to finally get that done. I know what it’s like to have that last little piece and then just

like I’m going to get it done. So you have that to look forward to after this. Do you My voice is Go ahead.

Husky. Husky. So just waking up here I So I’m here on Gubby Gubby country in Queensland in

Kabula and I wanted to know whether in so in Australia everybody has to submit

a tax return every year. I don’t know if that’s the case in the US. You know I mean basically if you’re

alive you need to pay taxes. Um you know I think it’s if you owe taxes then you

need to file them and pay them. There are instances where you don’t. Like for

me, I’m a unique case right now because um I’m not making enough uh money what

I’m doing now to to make a living from it. However, because I have a business,

quote unquote, you know, or actually technical business, I have to file. So, I have to spend all this time, all my

time collecting everything that I’ve done, you know, with my website, with

online, with with training. And I have to report it all. Even though I don’t owe any money, I still have to. And then

I I don’t want to do this. So I pay someone luckily I have someone that’s um fairly affordable to compile all the

proper tax forms. I mean it’s enough for me just to go through gather all the information and submit it to them and

kind of have it worked out so where they’re not spending so much time and understand all the different things to

report. So to me it’s it’s kind of ridiculous. Um but you know and then the Danish tax system is it’s really unique.

It’s really complex but I think it’s really efficient too. So I don’t know enough about it to speak too much about

that but they say what the death and taxes are the only certainties in life really kind of a cliche but uh yeah

well in in Australia most people you have an accountant and they find you’ve

done research and it’s like you use an accountant and you actually get a better return. So most people use an

accountant. In Australia, everybody has to submit um a tax return except it

might not be for people with disabilities. So So we have some responses here. Okay.

Gamers team has says, “Hi bro, how are you?” Well, even there’s

bro gal. So brah brah. Yeah. Um

being inappropriate. I know. I mean, uh, this is guys talk to each other. Not really appropriate here,

but anyway. Hey, um, you know, if the spirit’s good, hey, how’s it going? U Melissa Reed chimed in, I think, on the

last one, and she said she enjoyed it and made we made some good points. Looking forward to the next one. So,

that’s cool. So, let’s let’s jump into it here. And, uh, taxes or no taxes. And

I I’m pretty sure in Denmark the the scat the the Danish t which is interesting because they also call their

loved ones scat, but it’s also the name of the tax system which I think is brilliant by the way.

Yeah. Yeah. It’s it’s it’s I think it’s pretty much everybody can just go online and do it

themselves unless it’s really complex. So, it’s kind of the same way in America. If you don’t have too much, I

mean, if you’re just an employee, you have one tax form, I think, and not a very complicated finance finances, then

it it is fairly simple and you can do it yourself. But, I mean, a lot of people do opt to have either a full

professional accountant or like me, I have a it’s almost like a financial adviser in and a tax filer. So, so it’s

not a full-blown CPA certified public accountant. That’s really kind of hardcore, but you know that you’re going

to get kind of But yeah, so this is somewhere in between. And then you can just actually have a friend who really

likes numbers and know what they’re doing, you know, help you out and file it for you, I guess. Yeah. Hey, we’ve got some responses here. So,

apparently we have an extraordinary number of deductions that you can claim. So, our tax system is really

um overly generous and uh yeah, there’s a lot of conversation about that at the

moment. Sure. Yes, we have some comments. So, Zoom 2944 says, “Hello.” Hello. Back. Gamers

team replied, “You are girl.” So, at least we know it’s a person now, not a um not a bot, which is always nice.

Interesting English, by the way, though. You are girl. Okay. All right. Well, you know, you don’t know where people come from. You know what? It’s

like you don’t speak your Danish is a bit rough and rusty. So, there you go. Well, non-existent, basically. But,

yeah. There you go. So, there you are. Your Danish is the same. And um Mrs. Reed is

hi Wendy, hi Josh. Well, hello Mrs. Reed. Lovely to have you here. And post your questions. We will answer them in

real time. So or any comments. But I love the questions.

It is. And I actually got one the other day when I was doing um a live event on loving kindness. I can bring that in

here too and get uh bounce it off you. Let me read the quick intro I have here. Um, in this 34th installment of the

ongoing live series with Wendy Nash, inquiring into meditation practice on and off the cushion, we plan to delve into various aspects of meta loving or

loving kindness, ranging from the more common place to those that may be not as

wellknown and the many aspects in between this boundless immeasurable state. Please join to share whatever you

like about meta or just help strengthen your own practice. So this is um you know I would love to

even go on a retreat to just do in just one second get the screen bigger here. Um to just do meta on a retreat and I’ve

never done one of these to just dedicate entire retreat. I would love to do that. So the the question I got the other day

though I might as well just jump into that since this is a Q&A is um somebody said basically along the lines what

happens if you’re being too passive and people are walking all over you and

Yeah. And so this is um this is what I say all the time. I basically said, well, you know, if you’re being abused,

you have to get out of that situation no matter what. If you stay on the couch or whatever of a friend, but it basically

said, “No, I’m not that. It’s just so then I we talked about boundaries, which is what we talked about in the last

thing, and actually uh being assertive.” So some people really have a hard time like speaking up or a challenging time

speaking up and being assertive while other people are the other way around where they need to dial it down and they

come off too harsh and yeah but it’s for this the more passive it’s about asserting a boundary and then

strengthening it and saying hey you need to respect this boundary or otherwise I can’t you know take other tactics to to

to reinforce that. Yeah. So, so how how do you view this, Wendy? If if someone

feels and and meta kind of gets a bad rap, a loving kindness thing. Oh, people are going to take advantage you. That’s

one of the most common criticisms we hear. I mean, I can respond to that, but I want to hear what you have to say first with it.

Yeah. So, boundaries, I always think about it as if you love a child, do you

let them eat ice cream every day for every meal? And of course, if you love your child, you’re not going to do that.

you create you you know that what is the thing you know they have to eat vegetables and different grains and meat

and all these things to be healthy. So I think that we do know boundaries

instinctively when it comes to that. I think sometimes it can be difficult to know how to

speak up without being aggressive. Um or because I think we we can be quite

anxious about how do we do it and we bottle it up and bottle it up and bottle it up and then finally we say something

and it all comes out wrong because we haven’t said it when it’s a tiny little thing, we’ve said it when it’s like kabang. So I think it’s an a learning

curve to experience and to play with. Personally, that’s what I think. And I

think that um it’s it’s hard sometimes to even know whether

you have whe whether you’re whether you’re in abu in an abusive relationship. So, I was in an abusive

relationship once and it took me 10 years to figure out how abusive it was cuz that it was very subtle and I

thought, “Oh, I can’t say.” It was very subtle abuse. So, and it

made me understand how do people get into abusive relationships and how difficult it is to get out and how I can

be difficult. So, I think um if you are planning to leave an

abusive relationship, I think it’s really important to call the hotlines and the support lines. There are people who do amazing things and they will help

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Mystery, Mindfulness, Liberation & Everyday Dharma | Anapanasati Series Premiere With Stephen Fulder

(Ai basically summarizes thus:) In the premiere episode of this Anapanasati (Mindfulness of Breathing) series I welcome renowned Dharma teacher Stephen Fulder. Drawing from 50 years of practice, Stephen shares his journey discovering Dharma in India during the 1970s, founding Israel’s Insight Society, and teaching amid conflict. He offers a heartfelt, unstructured approach to Anapanasati, emphasizing breath as a simple, direct gateway to body, feelings, mind, and Dharma—mapping it lightly to the Four Foundations of Mindfulness without rigid steps. 

Key insights include celebrating impermanence as liberation, balancing effort with trust (saddha), and awakening feminine qualities like allowing (yoniso manasikara). Stephen highlights breath’s role in thriving through hard times, fostering kindness, and connecting to life’s web. He also discusses his new book, How to Thrive in Hard Times, and upcoming online events. Perfect for practitioners seeking practical, inspiring guidance on breath meditation.

And these reflective questions for deepening:

  • “Can you sense who’s in charge of this breath or who’s breathing?”
  • “What is the breath, is it a thing or is it a mystery?”
  • “What’s the celebration, the joy in the being as we breathe?”

0:00 – Introduction & Welcome: Stephen’s sense of blessing amid hard times.

2:00 – Who is Stephen Fulder?: Mystery of self, Dharma journey, founding Israel Insight Society.

5:00 – Discovering Dharma in India: Psychedelic roots, Goenka retreats, and grounded practice.

10:00 – Anapanasati Overview: Unstructured approach, breath as garden gate, body as entry.

15:00 – Mapping to Four Foundations: Breath with body, feelings, mind, and Dharma insights.

20:00 – Impermanence & Liberation: Observing arising/ceasing, dispassion, and letting go.

25:00 – Breath in Everyday Life: Trust (saddha), feminine awareness, thriving in conflict.

30:00 – Closing: Breath’s role in peace, book/events mention, and well-wishes for awakening.


https://www.stephenfulder.com

https://www.facebook.com/StephenFulderAwakenNow

https://www.instagram.com/stephenfulder/

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record button here. Wholeness, welcome. This is Josh of Integrating Presence and today I have

Stephen Fulder with me today. Stephen, how’s it going today? Uh fine. Really okay. I feel uh blessed

day by day even though times are really hard but uh I don’t take it too

personally. Um and uh life is still a blessing.

Well, cool. And that’s the way I feel most times when I’m um have a lot of stuff cleared out of the way. The reason

I reached out to Stephen today, if that’s okay, I haven’t called call you that even though you’re a doctor, right? Too. Um

it’s it’s true. Yes. Yes. Okay. So um I want to do a series

on anapanosati since it’s been my primary practice for the past couple years and I just wanted to reach out to

different teachers lay monastic just to get other perspectives and maybe tips

and uh techniques uh foundations anything that anybody wants to share

about it I want to give a space and learn from that but I want to keep with

my standard format here to start off. Who is Steven and what kind of work does he do?

Thank you. I have to say Steven is an utter mystery after being in this body for

nearly 79 years. Um Steven is uh actually it’s just a label.

I don’t feel full of the Stevenness.

Um uh I’m Jewish. So I remember asking my father one day is this finger Jewish

one how do I know and it’s a bit like that with the Steven is this finger Steven or not so after

basically 50 years of uh practice in the dharma

which I met in India as um an academic actually I was teaching in Indian universities in 7576

um and I met the dharma there and then I’ve been very engaged with the dharma.

Came actually to Israel by more or less by accident. Karma sort of dumped me in

Israel and I found myself in the beginning of the 80s as the only Buddhist in Israel except I heard that

uh um that the prime minister uh Bengurion

also had been in Burma and said I know how to do bipassa.

But anyway, uh then I started the Israel Insight Society uh which has become

basically the biggest organization in Israel for practice of I would say practical dharma, mindfulness,

awareness, meditation and the and the real deep practice of dharma. Um so I’ve

been practicing and teaching for the last 30 years writing books etc. Um, and

uh, Steven, as I say, is this mystery of I tell you why it’s mysterious. Because

labels don’t really do the job. They’re just another mind. They’re just another

concept. And I’m I’m celebrating the concept. I can celebrate the concept of

Steven, but I don’t believe it. When I look out of the world, I don’t

look out with eyes of Steven. I look out with the eyes of life that looks at

life. It isn’t Steven looking at life. It’s life looking at life. So I have to

say that as a kind of a a caution in relation to that word, this person

that’s beautiful and I always kind of say, well, labels are helpful at times. We pick them up, but we know when to put

them down and to know that they’re just labels, right? So yeah, you beautifully

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Immigration, Dharma, Health, Societal Change, & Unleashing Inner Glory: Reunion Talk with Denny Miu

(Apologies for some of the vague statements I give. Please just use them as a starting point for research) (Ai mostly sums it up thus:)

Enjoy this heartfelt reunion conversation with meditation teacher and Dharma friend Denny K Miu. After years apart, they dive into their shared history during the CO-V lockdowns, Denny’s evolving political awareness, and how Buddhist principles like wisdom, compassion, and harmony can help navigate the fear and division following Trump’s re-election. From personal immigration stories to globalization’s impact on the middle class, societal grievances, and practical health tips via Denny’s N.E.U.R.O framework, this talk blends spirituality, politics, and self-care. Discover how to “unleash the glory within” through meditation, emotional intelligence, and equanimity amid uncertainty.


0:00 – Introduction & Reunion: Catching up on friendship and past “Ask Us Anything” sessions during lockdowns.

5:00 – Pandemic Reflections: How COVID sparked their online presence and meditation adaptations.

10:00 – Political Shift: Denny’s increased focus on politics post-Trump re-election, viewing it as a new wave of fear and uncertainty.

15:00 – Executive Orders & Dictatorship Concerns: Discussing lawlessness, intimidation, and the erosion of checks and balances.

20:00 – Global Perspectives: Bewilderment from Asia/Europe on U.S. changes; Denny’s 50+ years as an immigrant.

25:00 – Societal Changes & Immigration: Neighborhood shifts, racism, and the myth of “illegal immigrants” vs. criminality.

30:00 – Globalization’s Toll: Loss of middle-class jobs, union decline, and the shift from governance to grievance politics.

35:00 – Hidden Influences: Tech figures like Peter Thiel & Elon Musk, Project 2025, and moneyed “games” in politics.

40:00 – Emotions in Politics: Politics as an “emotional con game” like Hollywood; addressing fear, attachment, and the five hindrances.

45:00 – Meditation & Dharma Application: Wisdom vs. compassion, changing ourselves first, and emotional intelligence.

50:00 – What You Consume Consumes You: Reacting internally to external events; harmony as a bridge.

55:00 – Brahma Viharas & Practice: Loving-kindness, compassion, sympathetic joy, equanimity, and daily reflections.

1:00:00 – Health & Longevity (N.E.U.R.O Framework): Nutrition, Exercise, Unwinding, Restorative sleep, Openness; balancing sympathetic/parasympathetic systems.

1:05:00 – Harmony in Society & Planet: From personal health to communal empathy; America as a “failed experiment” needing balance.

1:10:00 – Reflections on Death & Paradoxes: Integrating mortality awareness with health pursuits for deeper freedom.

1:15:00 – Closing: Unleashing inner glory, metta practice in real life, dedicating merit, and farewells..


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Audio: Immigration, Dharma, Health, Societal Change, & Unleashing Inner Glory: Reunion Talk with Denny Miu

Unedited transcript via YouTube:

Introduction & Reunion: Catching up on friendship and past “Ask Us Anything” sessions during lockdowns.

again. None other than Denny came. You Denny, what’s happened? I I’ I’ve been here. It’s just that

you’ve been disappearing on me. Oh, okay. Yeah. Well, no, this is this

is the thing with with friendships, right? Like um it it hurts. I don’t put the burden on myself or you.

And I think this is a sign of friendship, too, where we could reach out after years and then it’s almost

like no time has passed. You know, we we only been chatting a couple minutes before the show and I I lost Josh. I lost track of the

things that you kind of um uh uh encouraged me to do. You know, things

like insight timer things. Oh, I I I lost track. It just there’s so many different things you said, Denny, you

got to do this. I said, “No, no, no, no, no.” He said, “No, you got to do this.” And then it becomes that thing. You

know, it is. So if for those of you are who are new to I guess either of our work um

Denny and I used to do a ask us anything for uh for years and especially it was

during the uh the lockdowns the some people call it scandmic even and uh it

helped it helped me anyway I can’t speak for Denny but it helped me get through that it was a huge support and um so

yeah Denny you want to say something about that and then I guess we’ll just jump right into your your work I think and um I guess If this is if this is for

new, you might uh give people a quick background on yourself. I I guess one I my understanding is that

one of the reason that Josh reached out to me is that um in addition to a small

change in his life um you know he’s he’s been out at the United States and and

then you know as you look back and you see some of the uh the work that I’m doing now that tend to uh be a little

bit more political or at least be more aware of the uh political um scenario

happening in United States. And I if I understand correctly, you kind of say, “Hey, Danny, you know, why can we just

have a conversation on that?” Right. But but in any case, um you mentioned about

the pandemic. I I actually remember the the day that San Francisco uh started

the lockdown and I believe that it was either February or January 23rd, 2000.

And it No, 200. No. What is it?

Yeah. I think probably what wasn’t it two was No, it wasn’t 2000. It was it was it was uh 2020.

Well, that’s what I Sorry. That’s what I we were both thinking the same thing, but Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. 2000 was another

another so many things happen. Another end of the world. Yeah. I I think I think you and I got together

because um it just it was the right thing to do, you know, because um all of

a sudden you have this huge event, people don’t don’t understand what’s going on. There’s a lot of fear. there’s

a lot of um um fear mostly fear and then and then uh and then we we were used to

doing physical things and then we got locked down so you and I kind of both started this online uh presence and and

it was in in a way it was quite new and how do you do meditation how do you

start a class on meditation online when you can’t even feel the other person right and so um I I I think the pandemic

or however you want to characterize it, it was a major event in our life that

caused a lot of fear and I think when if you want to um come back to what’s

happening in the United States with the with the new freely elected president, I want to keep that in mind, you know. So

I mean I I I uh I have to accept that that he was you know unless unless we

discover something we don’t know or or we prove something that we thought we know but in any case the man is

reelected but I think of it as as as the pandemic number two you know 2.0 in that

it it caused a lot of fear as well and fear and certainty and and so forth. So

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